Top 3 Reasons Why True Love Waits (based on how I see Laxmi Sargara's life)

April 26 , 2012
TRUE LOVE WAITS

This was the my first real blog post- and I assume this can make a difference.
We all have beliefs regarding relationships. Most teens like the idea of "the smile on your face makes me know that you need me..." and of course the epic "first love never dies" reality statements. You see people hugging, holding each other's hands, and spending the day smooching as if they were the only people on earth. Yes, this is reality. People will die without a partner. Feel lonely without a companion. Live a sad life out of brokenness and singleness. Without love, living here on earth won't be worth it.

I've recently read an article on Yahoo entitled, Child Bride Has Marriage Annulled. Laxmi Sargara is Our Hero of the Day. I definitely with the majority of the comments about this - They're customs are absurd and illogical.

"At an age when most kids are learning to walk, Laxmi Sargara was already married. Her husband, Rakesh, was just three-years-old when family sealed the deal on their fate. She was one. "

Now seventeen years later the couple have set a history-making precedent by having their marriage annulled. But the real hero of this story is Laxmi, now 18, who took remarkably brave steps to reverse the archaic tradition and opened the door for more child brides to follow."

Yes, she became a hero 
Not a political hero, but an example for everyone who are rushing quickly for a relationship. (I  might be too exaggerated, but yeah, there's still wisdom in this)

Child Bride Has Marriage Annulled. Laxmi Sargara is Our Hero of the Day

Top 3 Reasons Why True Love Waits (based on how I see Laxmi Sargara's life)

1. Follow your heart, not what other's want

 "who took remarkably brave steps to reverse the archaic tradition"

    Yes, she's determined to reverse their so-called tradition. Now if  your peers was that illogical to commit relationship just because their friends want too- then they're entrapped in their own customs. They won't be fully happy, enjoy momentarily, and establish a poor foundation on their relationship.
Laxmi knew what she will suffer, and at the age of 18 - she made a stand.

2. It takes time to know a person, it takes a heart to love a person

"I was unhappy about the marriage. I told my parents who did not agree with me, then I sought help," Sargara told AFP. 

  I know what you are thinking, yes won't be happy if your marriage/relationship is based on a shotgun  spouse attack. You can't be truly happy to a person whom you've just met a week ago. Or surely you can be happy, if  your happiness is based on material things. Right?

3. You will live a crazy life with the wrong partner in life


Am I right again? Or maybe just correct me if I'm wrong. Most of us are experiencing intense disappointment just because we're with the wrong partner. You said you love her, but seems to regrets telling it in the first place. We accepted the ring, but would like to throw it over the bridge just to rewind your "Yes" mistakes.

"Now I am mentally relaxed and my family members are also with me," said Laxmi, who beamed as she held up the document for photographers. She plans to continue her education in hopes of landing a job so she can maintain her independence. "

The girl is mentally relaxed - thanks to her commitment to get out from her stupid tradition.
Are you having fun in your relationship with your partner?

Tell me about it.

You have to fight for true love, and you must also wait for it.


Joshua Tienzo
Cost Engineer
Email me: joshuatienzo@yahoo.com

Top signs that your relationship is dying

• When it seems that you don't know your partner anymore
• You have your separate goals in life
• You love each other. You ONLY love each other and the interest/the passion/ the "spark" is gone
• Your commitment is the only thing binding the two of you
• One is stubborn, the other is insensitive
• You are not happy anymore, because the other one has his/her own "happiness" to rely with.
• You want to grow as a person and as a partner, however the other would like to stay on his/her level of immaturity and just remain on his/her own perception of maturity
• Physical romance is only what's left on your relationship
• There are no quality conversations
• Your partner trust "material things" rather than simply having faith and relying on God's blessings
• Your partner won't listen anymore and wont subject on the authority of the husband
• 3rd Party (Of course, unless your an idiot)
• You love God more than your partner, but your partner loves you more than God.

Finding God's will on your life

God's will on your life


There are many plans in a man's heart. Some of it can be easily categorized as "God's Will",..and some of it are based on selfish ambitions. And who can stop you from pursuing your goals if it's dedicated for Him? Fear, anxieties, and unsureness of things happening in the future..they are the ones that commonly prevent most people to succeed. If God will be your strength, will you lack? If your doing His will, will you be lost? As we know God, we can can clearly His will upon us.


The things we prioritized must also be the things important Him. So why worry if He's on your side? For where your heart is, there will be your heart also. Your heart's desires states the probability of your success.

People do expect. They work hard to fulfill a goal. They can sacrifice almost anything just to see their plans being fulfilled. There are reasons to give up and there are times when the road to success is almost faded and seemingly impossible to be walked through.


I thank people people who makes me realize that life is not always about me, what I want, or neither my goals in life. I find strength in my every success. I find joy in every goals that I meet. I find happiness on things which He considered of His enemy.I neglected the very person who first loved me. -that's why I'm now crying in desperation and asking God, "Why?".


In this point in my life, when my every strength is gone, His strength is made perfect in my eyes. I can clearly see that God will always be the one to be hoped for, the one who must controll every vein in my body. Without him, I'll end up in failure. He snatched away the very things I considered "important" and gave me the chance to return on the narrow path. Man will always have the reason why His strength is gone and God will always have his reason to carry us through the times we don't know where are we walking. Every thing will always be in His time.



"...He will give you the desires of your heart"
Psalm 37:4


-J.Tienzo